there are many people that cannot open themselves to other. often that`s because of "i was chagrined in some friends of mine", "they made me suffer" and blah blah blah.
the question is, why you can`t trust them, if you`ll trust them again at the end of all? mostly it takes a time, to start trust again. and most of the people really start it again, even if it takes a lot of time. so why do people close theirselves? why they need that span? i mean, they will be fooled again after all.
p.s. my english still sucks balls.